The message I shared on Sunday at ICC was all about God’s plan for singles.  During the message I mentioned a book that I had been reading that dealt with some of the same issues. 

I have to be honest and share that I haven’t yet completed this book.  Here’s why: every time I get into it I run into someone who is going through a life situation where they need it.  And at that point I feel compelled to give it away. 

One of the best explanations that I have already swiped from Craig Groeschel in “Going All the Way” is that singles need to stop spending all their time and energy looking for “the one” — the one person of the opposite sex that will complete their lives and make everything better, and start focusing on “the One” — Jesus Christ, who can complete them and then enable them to move forward as a whole, healthy person.

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.  Matthew 6:33

This book is chock full of good insights and solid biblical teaching about singleness, relationships, and marriage.  I definitely recommend it (click the pic for the Amazon link) as a resource for yourself and/or if you have the opportunity to counsel or encourage people in these areas.  I would call it a very helpful resource for college ministries, singles groups, or premarital counseling. 

The author, Craig Groeschel is the pastor of LifeChurch.tv and is – in my opinion – one of the most refreshing, kingdom-focused large church pastors in America today.  Now I have to go buy a new copy for myself . . .